Understanding How Toxic Limerence Can Be
My fortieth birthday is a week away as I write this. I haven’t been taking…
Browsing: Gay Men’s Issues
Toxic Romance And Gay Loneliness | Some 2025 Thoughts
Back in August 2021, I wrote about “gay narcissism” for the first time. It’s a…
Avoidance And Ambivalence In Gay Narcissistic Relationships
It would be so easy to pretend that all of my romantic dysfunction started and…
Gay Narcissists, Gay Narcissism, And Addiction To Validation
Whenever I talk to gay men in their twenties and early thirties, a great many…
More Gay Dating Red Flags | Gay Narcissism And Gay Narcissists
I’ve been reading a lot of Bella DePaulo, a writer for Psychology Today who produces…
Gay Narcissism & Gay Narcissists | ‘Dating’ Apps And Early Red Flags
I keep it simple whenever I have an active profile on one of the “dating”…
Gay Narcissistic Relationships | Discard, New Supply, And Betrayal
I don’t remember when the word betrayal first entered my mind. It took time, though—time…
A Tempting Offer | Gay Men And Giving Up Years Of Life For The “Perfect Body”
I recently found a long-lost news clipping I once kept pinned to the cork board…