Narcissistic Discard And New Supply | Trapped In Rumination And ‘If Only’ Moments
If only… If only… If only… This was my mindset for many weeks during the…
Author Steven Surman
Steven Surman
Steven Surman has been writing for over 15 years. His essays and articles have appeared in a variety of print and digital publications, including the Humanist, the Gay & Lesbian Review, and A&U magazine. His website and blog, Steven Surman Writes, collects his past and current nonfiction work. Steven’s a graduate of Bloomsburg University and the Pennsylvania College of Technology, and he currently works as the Content Marketing Manager for a New York City-based media company. His first book, Bigmart Confidential: Dispatches from America's Retail Empire, is a memoir detailing his time working at a big-box retailer. Please contact him at steven@stevensurman.com.
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I found myself in a difficult spot with the Gay Narcissist and a mutual friend…
Narcissism And Cheapness | A Generous Pal With Strangers
“I got it.” And with that statement, the Gay Narcissist pulled out and pried open…
Narcissism And Signs Of Financial Abuse
The foundation was laid early and subtly. The Gay Narcissist let me know he was…
Narcissists And Sociopaths | “Emotional Heat” Versus The “Ice-Cold”
In my early sessions with the Lovely Therapist, I read to her excerpts from blogs…
Narcissism And Hoovering | Major And Minor Attempts
After the Final Narcissistic Discard happened and I watched the Gay Narcissist move on with…
Gay Narcissists, Gay Narcissism, And Addiction To Validation
Whenever I talk to gay men in their twenties and early thirties, a great many…
More Gay Dating Red Flags | Gay Narcissism And Gay Narcissists
I’ve been reading a lot of Bella DePaulo, a writer for Psychology Today who produces…